Leaders: Mike Fedel with expert Guest Speakers providing monthly talks
Sessions: 60 minutes
Upcoming sessions: Wednesdays: 6/7, 6/14, 6/21, 6/28, 7/12, 7/19, 7/26
Time: noon ET/ 11am CT/ 10am MT/ 9am PT
Are you in a committed relationship with an ADHDer? Do you wish you could talk to other people who are ADHD adjacent? Then this is the group for you. At ADDA our mission is to to help adults with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder lead better lives. We believe happier marriages would be an integral part to leading better lives.
You may recognize the name Mike Fedel, he has provided 2 “Who Am I Living With?” workshops for our members over the last year. Here’s what one of our members had to say about his experience in this workshop:
“I’m writing to express our appreciation for Mike’s recent workshop, in which my wife and I participated. Good insights and confirmation, enhanced our understanding of our relationship and some of the issues we have to handle, and gave us realistic and practical ideas on how to make it work better. Mike’s enthusiasm and good will are infectious, and he works hard. Good man.
Another name you might recognize is Terry Huff, author of Living Well with ADHD.http://terrymhuff.com/book/ Terry has been leading a face to face support group for adults with ADHD in his native Tennessee for over 10 years. His work with non-ADHD partners includes face-to-face ADHD couples workshops which he has lead for 9 years as well as couples therapy. We are lucky to have a seasoned expert facilitator for this group.
Guest Speaker Jill Corvelli was recommended to us by Melissa Orlov, author of The Couples Guide to Thriving with ADHD. Jill will be a guest speaker on the 1st Wednesday of June, July and August. Terry Huff will be a facilitator on the 3rd Wednesdays.
We are very fortunate to have this all star team to connect with our beloved partners in life, enhance our understanding of our relationships with realistic and practical ideas for the better, Please join us on Wednesdays.
Group Leader Information
Mike Fedel – bio coming soon
Terry Huff – Bio
Terry M. Huff, LCSW
I grew up with parents who spent much of their lives serving others. Mom was a high school graduate,and Dad dropped out of ninth grade to work. When I was a year old, my father entered the grocery business, like his dad. He bought the inventory of a little corner store and got a delivery truck so we could take the groceries to the elderly and handicapped, and to families with no means of transportation. He and Mom were bodhisattvas, which means they were motivated by compassion to help others. They were among five couples who co-founded a social service agency in Nashville called AGAPE. Dad later co-founded a disaster relief program with other members of his faith community. My parents were models for living a life of value. They inspired me to follow their lead and attempt to be a compassionate helper.
I got my bachelor’s and master’s degrees in psychology at Middle Tennessee State University and worked in mental health and development disabilities in Tennessee and California in the early years of my career. I returned to graduate school. Attending the University of Tennessee College of Social Work to complete my second master’s degree. After obtaining my license for independent practice, I worked at Vanderbilt and Family & Children’s Service in Nashville before beginning my private practice in 1996. Diagnosed with ADHD in 1994, I began to specialize in serving other adults with attention disorders. I would learn that “attention deficit” was a misnomer. I began to see how that label reinforced the notion that individuals with this neurological difference simply were unable to focus their attention. That narrow conceptualization of this complex disorder limits effective treatment of ADHD in my opinion. If allowed to rename it, I would call in “attention management disorder.”
My private practice has evolved into multiple services. Providing psychotherapy just wasn’t going to be enough to meet the diverse needs of this population, and many adults with ADHD don’t need traditional therapy anyway. So, I started a support group for adults with ADHD, began providing workshops for ADHD couples, and developed a meditation workshop tailored to the needs of adults with ADHD. Most recently, I’ve begun to write and speak on how to live well with this neurological difference.
After years of hearing psychotherapy clients say, “I never thought about it that way,” I decided that I might be on to something a little different. I wanted to give more consideration to abilities than disabilities. I wanted to cultivate a perspective based on acceptance and wise effort, one that would appeal to the inherent resourcefulness and creativity of individuals in the ADHD family. I wrote my book with the intention of sharing this perspective and helping more people move beyond the walls of my office, the support group meetings, and workshops. My book has been a labor of love, which is the title of my last chapter. My wish is to be useful to adults with ADHD. I want to enhance the lives of adults with brains wired like mine and inspire them to use their talents to achieve their life goals.
Portland/Lake Oswego, OR
Acceptance & Commitment (ACT) therapist specializing in counseling and coaching Adult ADHD, partners of those living with ADHD, anxiety, depression, addiction. Locally, offers quarterly Journeys that are 4 week groups aimed at acceptance, education, relationships, symptom-tool linkage and more in support of ADHD and 8 week couples Expeditions bringing new ways of responding and relating to each other. Nationally, offer separate weekly virtual coaching groups for those navigating adult ADHD and non-ADHD partners. Groups provide peer support, continuous learning of tools and resources and coaching to activate on goals.